The Art of Love Podcast

Why does chemistry and attraction not necessarily mean you're compatible with someone?  What are false attractions?  Why is an "energy match" the best predictor of compatibility?  Find out in this eye-opening interview with Larry Michel, relationship coach and co-founder of Matchmatrix.

What are the advantages to being single?  Why does being single get such a bad rap?  What is "existential longing" and how does it affect our desire to have someone in our lives?  Find out in this intimate interview with Judy Ford, licensed clinical social worker and author of, "Single:  The Art of Being Satisfied, Fulfilled and Independent".

Why should you decide who to date based on their energy?  Who is responsible if your partner cheats?  Why is there no such thing as "rejection"?  Find out in this fast paced and enlightening interview with David Wygant, relationship coach, speaker and author of, "Naked:  How to Find the Perfect Partner by Revealing Your True Self".

Why do women often reject good guys?  What leads to a guy becoming a bad guy?  Find out in this interview with Justin Nutt, author of, "The Good Guy, The Bad Guy and the Ugly Truth".   Lucia also speaks with poet Lady Eros, author of, "Eros Comes in Black Satin".

What is a sensual woman? What is the difference between love and lust? What is the art of succulent living? Find out in this enlightening interview with Saida Desilets, PhD, seminar leader, Universal Tao instructor and author of, "Emergence of the Sensual Woman: Awakening Our Erotic Innocence".

What makes French women so seductive, mysterious and charming? Why don't they go on actual "dates"? Find out their secrets in this nouveau-thinking interview with Jamie Cat Callan, happiness expert and author of, "French Women Don't Sleep Alone: Pleasurable Secrets to Finding Love".

What is emotional infidelity?  How can you prevent it and what should you do if you find out your partner is being emotionally unfaithful?  Find out in this informative interview with Ronald T. Potter-Efron, psychotherapist and co-author of, "The Emotional Affair:: How to Recognize Emotional Infidelity and What to Do About It".

How can you know if a guy sees you as girlfriend material?  If he's "too good to be true", should you be concerned?  What does his "after-sex" etiquette say about him?  Find out in this fast-paced interview with Natasha Burton, co-author of, "The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags:  Relationship Warning Signs You Totally Spotted but Chose to Ignore".

The right person can take you to heaven and the wrong person can take you to hell. Find out how to make sure you pick the right person in this important interview with Lisa Hayes, life coach and author of, "How to Escape From Relationship Hell".

What are the 5 things you should never do on Twitter if you want to meet women?   How can you use Twitter to easily meet women at a nightclub, bookstore or anywhere?  Find out in this fast paced interview with Your Royal Flyness, author of, "Tweet Her and Meet Her".

Are you repelling potential partners with your "vibe"?  Does visualization help when it comes to finding love?  Find out in this enlightening interview with Dr. Alice Chan, speaker, coach and author of, "Reach Your Dreams:  Five Steps to be a Conscious Creator in Your Life".

What is the one phrase that will get a man to do whatever you want? What should you do when a man says he's not ready for a relationship? Find out in this leading edge interview with international dating coach, Matthew Hussey, author of, "Secrets of the Male Mind: Discover the Exact Steps on How to Meet, Attract and Keep Your Ideal Guy".

This is one show you do NOT want to miss! Lucia speaks to Ish Major, MD, voted one of America's Top Psychiatrists in 2010 and 2011 and author of, "Little White Whys: A Woman's Guide Through the Lies Men Tell and Why". Find out how to tell if a guy is lying when you ask him: Are you married? Are you seeing anyone else? Are you having sex with anyone? and much more!

What part does intuition play in love and relationships?  Why is it not a good idea to be Ms. Overly Independent?  How can you know when you've met "the one"?  Find out in this enlightening interview with Servet Hasan, natural intuitive and author of, "The Intuitive Heart of Love:  Finding Your Own Path to Lasting Love".

What is the difference between a "gold" digger and a "goal" digger?   How can you spot a poser, a cheapskate or an "owner"?  Don't miss this controversial interview with Baje Fletcher, model, actress and author of, "A Gold Digger's Guide:  How to Get What You Want Without Giving it Up".

If you text your lover 20x a day, don't like to be alone, like drama in a relationship and/or have sex with someone when you didn't plan to or want to, you just might be a love or sex addict. Find out in this must-hear interview with Ethlie Ann Vare, author of, "Love Addict: Sex, Romance and Other Dangerous Drugs".

Have you given up on love?  Do you have trust issues with men?  Is your baggage weighing you down?  Don't miss this "girlfriend talk" interview with Charly Emery, strategist and author of, "Thank Goodness You Dumped His Ass:  Use Those Mr. Wrongs to Lead You Straight to Mr. Right".

Have you stopped having sex in your relationship? Is the passion gone? Do you relate to each other more as roommates than romantic partners? Single or married, you need to hear this leading edge interview with Julienne Davis, co-author of, "Stop Calling Him Honey and Start Having Sex".

Not for women only!  We all have the "inner critic" that tells us we're not good enough, unlovable, need someone else to complete us and many other lies.  Find out how to overcome the nasty voice in this eye-opening interview with Amy Ahlers, master coach and author of, "Big Fat Lies Women Tell Themselves".

Is it possible to bring the romance back to your relationship through texting?  How can you use texts to peak the interest of someone you've just met?  Find out in this fascinating interview with Michael Fiore, author of, "Text the Romance Back".  Lucia also speaks to Dr. Ish Major about his "Cheater Meter" app.  Find out if your guy will cheat or not.

Are you a bitch when it comes to dating? Find out whether you're an insecure, needy, freaky, obsessive, dumb, unavailable or unrealistic bitch and what you can do about it in this upbeat interview with Gina Hendrix, concierge matchmaker, dating expert and author of, "Stop Being a Bitch and Get a Boyfriend".

Are women hardwired to have sex like a man? Do men want a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets? How does the media contribute to scaring women into believing they need to have a man in their lives? Find out in this controversial interview with Samhita Mukhopadhyay, author of, "Outdated: Why Dating is Ruining Your Love Life".

Does being a bitch help or hinder your love life?  How do men react to bitches?  Is there power in femininity?  Find out in this enlightening interview with Rebecca Grado and Christy Whitman, authors of the New York Times Best Seller, "Taming Your Alpha Bitch:  How to be Fierce AND Feminine (and Get Everything You Want)".

How should you approach an older woman and how can you know if she's interested? What are the 2 types of Cougars?  Find out in this fun show about Lucia's recording, "How to Catch a Cougar".  In studio guests are engaged Cougar couple Lina and Sean.

Why do so many relationships start off as fairy tales and end up as nightmares?  Is it possible that orgasm plays a major part in their downfall?  Find out in this shocking interview with Marnia Robinson, author of, "Cupid's Poisoned Arrow:  From Habit to Harmony in Sexual Relationships". 

Does sex equal commitment?  How can a woman know if a man is ready to commit?  Find out in this girl-talk style interview with Kimberly Dawn Neumann, relationship expert and author of, "The Real Reasons Men Commit:  Why He Will - or Won't - Love, Honor and Marry You".

Is it possible to combine passion and reason?  What is romantic love based on?  Is it ok to be selfish when it comes to love and romance?  Find out in this leading edge interview with Edwin A. Locke, PhD and Ellen Kenner, PhD, authors of, "The Selfish Path to Romance:  How to Love with Passion and Reason".

Why are guys you're attracted to never attracted to you and vice versa? When does a woman know if she wants to sleep with a man? Find out in this fun discussion about Lucia's book, "Lucia's Lessons of Love: A Dating Expert Answers the Most Asked Dating and Relationship Questions". Lucia's friend Kimbra sits in as co-host.

Are guys truly jerks or is it all just an act? Are they destined to cheat? Is being hot the most important factor if you want to get a guy? Find out in this very interesting interview with Amber Madison, sex and dating expert and author of, "Are All Guys A**holes?"

Is there a way to ask a man a question so that he will tell you what he's really thinking? Is there a way to get a man to give you what you want without having to ask him? Find out in this very revealing interview with Mike Lindstrom, life coach, speaker and co-author of, "Men: Ten Secrets Every Woman Should Know From Two Guys That Do".

Why should a man have sex with his female friends at least once? How should you deal with a woman who isn't returning your phone calls? Find out in this "keeping it real" interview with Mr. Locario, dating expert and author of, "The Magnificent 10: Crucial Dating Tips For Men".

Want to know the secrets of the sexy and slim?  Find out in this fun interview with Sally Shields, radio host and author of, "Is She Naturally Thin or Disciplined?"  Lucia also speaks to a woman in a Cougar relationship and responds to email questions with the assistance of her friend from New York, Sandy McKnight.

Cougar expert Lucia reveals her list of top 10 reasons to date an older woman. She also speaks to Todd Merriman of the #1 Cougar Lifestyle website Urbancougar.com

Lucia speaks with celebrity numerologist Glynis McCants, author of, "Love by the Numbers: How to Find Great Love or Reignite the Love you have Through the Power of Numerology". Find out how numbers can improve your love life."

What is the #1 problem with sex today? What is the #1 solution to satisfying a woman? How can you tell if a woman has faked an orgasm? Both men and women will be interested in my candid interview with Bart Smith, author of, "Laws of the Bedroom: What Men Need to Know About Sex and Pleasing a Woman".

What's the best way to approach a woman you're interested in?  How can you tell whether she's just being friendly or she's flirting with you?   Find out in this fast paced interview with Katia Loisel-Furey, international flirting, dating and body language expert and author of "How to Get The Woman You Want".

What are the signs that a man is interested in a woman? What are some flirting mistakes that women usually make? How can you easily attract men by being the "designated photographer"? Find out in my very informative interview with Katia Loisel-Furey, international flirting, dating and body language expert and author of "How to Get The Man You Want".

Are you tired of being single? Are you wondering why your relationship status still hasn't changed? Find out in this fun, "girl talk" interview with Nikki Nokes, author of, "Maybe...it's You!"

Do you suck at love?  Do all your relationships end with drama?  Are you an over-giving, serial monogamist with a suspicious streak?  You won't be after listening to this leading edge interview with Cindy Lu, author of, "The Four Man Plan - A Romantic Science".

Why do men love bitches? What is chemistry? Why do your ex's usually call back? Find out in my interview with Dr. Pat Allen, renowned Jungian therapist, #1 dating/relationship/marriage expert and author of, "The Answers Book".

Is it possible for a man to go from friend to lover? How can you be a nice guy yet still have an "edge"? Find out in my very informative interview with Frank B. Kermit, dating guru and author of, "From Friends to Lovers: Stop Being Her Emotional Cookie Man".

Is he the "One" or should you run? Is it cold feet or just pre-wedding jitters? Find out in this very important interview with Jennifer Gauvain, MSC, LCSW and co-author of, "How Not to Marry the Wrong Guy: A Guide to Living Happily Ever After".

Why should you ignore what someone says or does when you are trying to win them over? Is it true difficult times make relationships stronger? What do men really want? Find out in this enlightening interview with Tom McKnight, co-author of, "More Love Tactics: How to Win that Someone Special".

Before "He's Just Not Into You" and "The Rules", there was "Love Tactics".  Lucia thinks this is the absolute best self-help book ever! Written over 25 years ago, the principles still hold true today for both men and women. Find out why in this leading edge interview with Thomas McKnight, author of, "Love Tactics:  How to Win The One You Want".

Do you want your man to "put a ring on it"?  Find out how in this fast paced, upbeat interview with Glenda Wallace, author of, "How to Get Him to Put That Ring on Your Finger in 365 Days or Less!"  Glenda is about to be married for the 6th time and been proposed to a record 19 times!

Money issues are the number 1 reason for divorce. Find out what your financial personality is BEFORE you say, "I do" in this upbeat interview with Michael Sion, author of, "Money and Marriage:  How to Choose a Financially Compatible Spouse".

What makes a man want to marry a woman? What's the best way to let a guy know he's done something wrong? What's the one question every woman should ask on a first date? Find out in my very informative interview with Lauren Frances, dating coach and author of the popular, "Dating, Mating and Manhandling - The Ornithological Guide to Men".  Lauren's website is:  www.laurenfrances.com

Men have been called dogs, but can they be trained like them? Find out why it's important to "give direct commands", "keep him leash free" and much more in my entertaining interview with Mandy Pratt, life coach and author of, "Why Men Are Like Dogs and How We Can Love Them".

How do women manipulate men? Why does a man's ego work against him when dealing with women? Why was Mel Gibson so angry in his voicemails? Find out in this in depth interview with Dr. Herb Goldberg, psychologist and author of, "What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships and Love".

If a woman doesn't want to have sex with a man, it's because he's not satisfying one or more of her emotional needs. Find out what they are in this truly enlightening interview with Frank B. Kermit, relationship expert and author of, "The Emotional Needs Analysis Workbook".

Just as food comes with an ingredient label, so do men.  Find out how to easily read it in this fun interview with Jennifer Tardy, relationship activist and author of, "His Ingredient Label:  A Woman's Guide to Recognizing a Junk Food Man".

Despite the controversial title, "The Problem with Women...Is Men" is not about man bashing. In this upbeat interview, author and relationship expert Charles J. Orlando assists women in regaining their sanity and self-esteem, and empowers men in evolving beyond their primal instincts.

Have you ever had a guy you've been interested in suddenly disappear?  Find out what happened and how to make sure it never happens again in this eye-opening interview with Evan Mark Katz, dating coach and author of, "Why He Disappeared".

Why does a woman choose to stay with one man vesus another?  What is "womanese".  What is "interest level" and why is it so important?  Find out in this very informative, high energy interview with renowned  dating coach Doc Love, author of, "Doc Love's THE SYSTEM: The Dating Dictionary".

If you're so wonderful, why are you still single?  Why does Mr. Right seem to be so elusive? He won't be, after you listen to this inspiring interview. Lucia speaks to J.M. Kearns, author of: Why Mr. Right Can't Find You.

Lucia speaks to Jess McCann, author of "You Lost Him At Hello". Learn how to apply sales techniques to dating. Lucia says this is one of the best self help books she has ever read, so you don't want to miss this interview!  Be prepared to take lots of notes!

How do you know when it's time to break up? Will you ever get over your ex? Is little to no sex a sign of a relationship about to end? Find out in this fast paced interview with Dr. Stephan Poulter, clinical psychologist and author of, "Your Ex-Factor: Overcome Heartbreak and Build a Better Life".

What should you do and say on a 1st date in order to guarantee a 2nd date? Is it okay to kiss or have sex on the first date? Find out in my very informative interview with life coach, speaker and former Hollywood agent Victorya Michaels Rogers, author of, "The Automatic 2nd Date"

What's in a name?  Can you know if someone will be romantic, a player, a good lover, easy going or a commitment phobe?   Find out in this fast paced, upbeat interview with Kerri Hopkins, expert name profiler and author of, "Breaking The Name Code"

Are you a doormat when it comes to men and dating?  Do you suffer from "toxic niceness"?   Find the cure in this light-hearted interview with Elizabeth Hilts, author of "The Inner Bitch Guide to Men, Relationships & Dating".

What's behind the fear of commitment?  Why are you attracted to players?  How can both men and women deal with the power struggle in relationships?  Find out in this informative interview with Dr. Patrick Wanis, human behavior expert and author of, "Get the Man You Want".

If you're not quite single but you're not quite married, you may be "a little bit married". Find out the pros and cons of this stage in your relationship in this interview with Hannah Seligso, journalist and author of, "A Little Bit Married: How to When it's Time to Walk Down the Aisle or out the Door".

How can you attract men like bees to honey? How can you have the confidence that men find so attractive? How can you "cheat-proof" your relationship? Find out in this seminar-type interview with Jay Cataldo, author, life coach and creator of "Sexual Radiance".

Who does monogamy hurt more - men or women?  What are the rules of monogamy?  Is there a difference between monogamy and commitment?  Find out in this eye-opening interview with Frank B. Kermit, relationship expert and author of, "Making Monogamy Work"

Do you always seem to pick the wrong men, even if they seem so right at first? How can you start picking the right ones? Find out in this fun interview with Dawn Maslar, professor and author of, "The Broken Picker Fixer: From Heartbreak to Soulmate Finding the Love You Desire in 12 Weeks or Less".

What are the 5 signs that a man is unavailable for a relationship? Why should women date a "pair and a spare"? Find out in this fun interview with J.J. Smith, dating/relationship expert and author of, "Why I Love Men: The Joys of Dating".

Unless a woman addresses a man's emotional needs, no matter how great the sex or how beautiful she is, a high value man will not commit. Find out what those needs are in this eye-opening interview with Frank B. Kermit, author of, "The Eye of the Seductress: A Workbook for Women to Learn About the Emotional Needs of Men".

Have you ever been fooled by a man who turned out to be a "player"?  Do you want to learn how to handle a player and jam his game?  Find out in this fun yet informative interview with Miss T., author of, "The Player Slayer:  The Pocket Guide to Jamming the Player's Game".

This is the one show you must listen to. Lucia speaks with renowned therapist Dr. Pat Allen, author of: The Truth About Men Will Set You Free but First it'll P*ss You Off. You may have seen Dr. Pat on Millionaire Matchmaker where she gives politically incorrect but scientifically correct advice. In this interview she answers questions such as: Do men just want sex? When should a woman sleep with a man? How do men fall in love?

Lucia interviews David Matthews, author of, "Every Man Sees You Naked". Get the inside scoop on everything from what men really want, what they think about women who have sex on the first date and the 5 word phrase which reduces them to jello!

Did you know that what you write in a text and when you send it can determine where your relationship will go? Learn the rules to flirting via text with Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz, authors of, "Flirtexting: How to Text Your Way to his Heart".

What makes a man commit? Why do men cheat? Why do men do what they can get away with? Relationship expert Steven James Dixon spills the beans in his book, "Men Don't Heal, We Ho: A Book About the Emotional Instability of Men".

Are women naturally monogamous?  Do women prefer intercourse over oral sex as they get older?  Find out the truth in this enlightening interview with Michelle Langley, author of, "Women's Infidelity".